That was just the beginning, after that I was bombarded with stories like Snow White, Rapuntsel, Sleeping Beauty etc. and as I grew older the stories became more soppy more hard to believe, but it always ended with
Now I can see the truth some author said in one of his books (whose name I cant remember now):
"HAPPILY EVER AFTER IS FOR STORIES THAT HAVEN'T FINISHED YET"
So here I am thinking back at the days I still believed in forever after and happily ever after. And the sad part is that since I started living in the dating world I grew a dislike to forever after. In any case how many people really have forever happily ever after?????Right from the beginning of our dating lives our stories start with pigs and come on you will stop kissing the frogs if the prince don't show his face after a few. But when the frog actually do turn into a human hes usually anything but charming.
It's our knight that comes in shining armani that makes our hearts jump over the moon. From the first time we set eyes on them we adore them and want to please them, but after they get what they want (well enough of what they want) they run of in search of another damstell in distress.
The Prince's and Knights of our generations are not made just for one princess, no way hosey they have to multitask and go to the aid of other women as well.
Thinking back I can't remember any of my friends (or family) whose grandparents have been divorced. They all lived in holy matrimony and got they happily ever after, till death do us apart mumbo jumbo.
Is it maybe because they respected each other more? Because really some guys I know could go knock at some of the elder peoples doors to get respect lessons. They have the manners of a bull that has a thorn in his hoove. And the worst part is they think it is your fault!
Also they do not value the women like our grandparents, they go through them like I go through underwear. I don't think our grandfathers would give up their girls as easily because they took way too long to get into a girls pants.
And girls whoosh, Yoh I dont think our grandmothers went around asking guys to come do them.
I mean seriosly who would say no to a piece of meat on a silver tray it's like someone giving you tonights winning lotto numbers.
The fact that okes can get a girl with the snap of a finger makes him not work that hard on a relationship, or work at all.... and that makes them definately not marriage material.
But then again I think it's overrated to get married because if the man wants to leave he will leave no matter if you are binded by a ring or just a rent contract. And if he wants to go bone some other chick he will go do it, with the hope of course that you won't find out.
Marriage is a bond between two people promising to foresake all others, and I don't think this generation can do that!!
Now the thing that makes me wonder most is, why do most men go look for greener pastures? Don't they get enough at home?
You can give your man every thing he wants at home,he will still go do that jintoe he just met in the club... The reason? Its the way the mens brain is wired. He is going to cheat, If he hadn't already, that is. They think they have the 'golden banana and have to prove it to their friends ( well not all of them)...
Men just can't keep their forks at home, they have to go stick it in other plates as well, then they want to come back to you and tell you how they prefer your pudding.
Now does that sound any thing like a fairytale to you?
A man is a man and a man will go round!
The only thing us girls can do is hope we find that one guy that will be satisfied with just your pudding..
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